Minggu, 31 Juli 2011

How To Be Social Without Having To Go Out To Eat


What's one of the first questions we ask when we decide to meet up with someone: Lunch or coffee? If you really wanted to crash our economy, ban meetings in restaurants or coffee houses.
I'm sure it goes back to primitive times. It's conceivable (at least to me) that early Australopithecines at day's end gathered around a half-devoured gazelle and discussed their events on the plains. After all, a leisurely grunting session with some close hominoids after a long period gathering, scavenging, and escaping from carnivores would be welcome.
Although the evolutionary train has pulled out, our habits have not. We celebrate with food. We do
business over dinner. Relationships begin - and end - at restaurants. Even our last tribute, the wake, is deeply intertwined with eating.
There's nothing wrong with these; don't get me wrong. But one has to admit, that for most of us, it's hard to picture doing anything else with each other. If we're looking to adjust our collective waistlines and get in shape, maybe we need to examine some options. After all, there are book clubs, quilting circles, or even video games.
My son was in town; this usually involves copious amounts of food. Under the television lies our unused video console; the wireless type specializing in sporting events, where one creates icons to compete against each other.
Said he to me, "Bet I can take you in a sword fight."
I might be 30 years his senior but I still have testosterone; I couldn't let that stand.
Our characters faced each other. The battle was joined. After several close rounds, lots of laughter, a great deal of sweat, and exclamations of "You're toast!" or "Take that," age indeed triumphed over youth.
More important, I can already tell it will be one of my favorite memories, far more than yet another trip to yet another restaurant. Plus the added bonus is I got to show him he'd still better not mess with his old man. (Of course, I still can't lift my arms; but I'll deny it if you tell him.)

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